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As I forced my shovel into the hardened soil beneath a beautiful tree at dusk last Saturday, I felt numb. I was still in shock and disbelief that, just a few hours earlier, Maxwell had left his old, tired body, and it was time to say goodbye. Maxwell had been more than an endless source of unconditional love and support through some of the hardest years of my life; he was a teacher, sharing important life lessons with me and everyone who met him. As I returned his body to the earth, I felt a duty to honor his memory by sharing one of those lessons with the world. It wasn’t easy to choose just one among so many, and I hope I picked a good one. This week, I’ll share that one piece of wisdom I picked up from him, hoping that, if it inspires you, you’ll embrace it, pass it on, and help keep Maxwell’s legacy alive.
A Life of Conviction and Empathy
Maxwell picked his battles. There was no resistance when it came to drying him with a hairdryer after a bath or dressing him up in a Halloween costume. But when it came to his obsession with licking—whether it was your ankle, the couch, or the legs of the furniture—there was simply no stopping him. I was never in doubt about what Maxwell liked and disliked. Even when his quirks frustrated me, I couldn’t stay mad at him. He knew how to ask for his share of popcorn during movie nights, lay down on top of the furniture instructions just to be close to me, or stand patiently by the door when he was ready for a walk. He never barked or came across as demanding. Instead, he was calm and gentle, always there to offer support with his endless empathy. Yet he never wavered from who he was. If we were sad, we’d be sad together—but popcorn still had to be shared.
In time, I learned to meet him where he was, sharing my popcorn without hesitation, adjusting his spot when he’d plop down in the middle of things, and always ready to put on my jacket when he wanted a walk. Maxwell embodied a rare blend of conviction and compassion—a reminder that it’s possible to stay true to yourself with kindness and care. He taught me that you can insist on your vision with gentleness and empathy, which may be the best way to communicate, connect, and inspire.
Reflecting on it this morning, I realized that this balance is a powerful approach to leading a life, a family, a business, and everything in between. It’s how you build trust, foster meaningful relationships, and create a positive culture. Leading with conviction brings consistency and clarity, while empathy nurtures a supportive, collaborative environment. Kindness doesn’t weaken your stance; it strengthens it and amplifies your influence.
So, hold firm to your values, but do it gently. Pick your battles, and leave plenty of room to connect and empathize with others, just as Maxwell did. You’ll be amazed at the love, respect, and trust you inspire in others by embracing the Maxwell way.
Thank you, Maxwell, for making every moment special just by being you…
– Burak Sarac, Team Lead
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